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INFATUATION

    It is so disconsolate that most of us are being disturbed and distracted by God forsaking and unnecessary feelings which has an enormous effects on us and our future. One of those feelings is called INFATUATION. 

    Infatuation is a feeling of foolish or obsessively strong love for, admiration for, or interest in someone or something which is often short-lived liking. It has been stated in the definition, it is a foolish love, obsessively strong love and a short lived liking. We do think the love between us are true, but it is not because at our age, there is no way that god forsaking love will lead us to right path, it will surely arrest us to the hellish depression of no return. Here are some effects of infatuation, they are :

~ Loss of interest in positive things :- An individual that has given up to infatuation will find it hard to concentrate in his focus, for example, And individual that reads 5hours in a day will find it difficult to read even in 2hours in a day because he/she will focus on how to gain attention of his/her crush. after this he/she will definitely found his/her situation in point 2.

~ Lack of progress :- And individual that is in 90—95% will drop to mediocrity status because he/she have lost interest in positive things.

~ Develop a negative habit :- Infatuation is a foolish love, what is expected of it? Bad behavior will evolve, an individual will  to imagine having coitus with other fellow, lavish spending on other fellow etc.

~  It brings about jealous and terrible heart break :- In a situation where the other fellow is double dating, and it is made known to one, it will cause what the psychologist called " heart break " Broken Heart Syndrome occurs when deep emotional triggers cause distress in the brain and significantly weaken a person’s heart, causing such symptoms as chest pain or shortness of breath.  This tends to affect women more than men, and can easily be misdiagnosed as a heart attack.

  HOW TO OVERCOME THE EFFECT OF INFATUATION AND INFATUATION.

1. Pray to Go when temptation is around

2. Be crystal clear and moderate in thinking

3. Stay focused

4. Let your lifestyle motivate others not feelings.


....Thanks for reading, I hope you gain one or two lessons 

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