PROMISE WRITES OUTLET

As we enter a new month, we may face many challenges and uncertainties. We may feel anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed by the situations we encounter. One way is to learn from the wisdom of Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor and philosopher who lived in the second century AD. Marcus Aurelius wrote a book called Meditations, which contains his personal reflections and advice on how to live a good and happy life. He wrote this book for himself, as a way of coping with his own troubles and responsibilities as a ruler and a human being. One of the main themes of his book is the idea of STOICISM , which is a school of philosophy that teaches us to focus on what we can control and accept what we cannot. Stoicism helps us to develop a rational and calm attitude towards life, and to avoid being disturbed by external events or emotions. Here are some of the quotes from Marcus Aurelius that can inspire us to stay positive in the new month: ✓ " You have power over your mind - not ...

My grandma used to say "Ikoko akufo o ki shey oun amu tole" (A broken pot cannot do what a whole pot can do). She would tell me to always be careful with my pots, to avoid breaking them and losing their value. She would say that a broken pot can never fit in the kitchen, that it is useless and worthless, that it is something to be thrown away. But, is a broken pot really useless? Can it not become something better than what it was? Can it not become something that has value and beauty that is different from those in the kitchen? There is an art called kintsugi, which means "golden joinery". It is the practice of repairing broken pottery with lacquer mixed with gold, silver, or platinum. Instead of hiding the cracks, kintsugi highlights them and makes them part of the pot's history and beauty. The result is a unique and stunning piece of art that celebrates the pot's imperfections and resilience. Kintsugi teaches us that we can learn from our mist...

“Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.” - Oscar Wilde What do you think of this quote? Do you agree or disagree with it? Do you think that selfishness is a good or a bad thing? And do you think that you are selfish or not? Delving into this concept through Social exchange theory, which is a theory that proposes that human interactions are based on the exchange of rewards and punishments. Rewards are anything that we value, such as money, praise, love, or happiness. Punishments are anything that we dislike, such as pain, criticism, rejection, or guilt. According to social exchange theory, we are motivated to maximize our rewards and minimize our punishments in our social relationships. Social exchange theory assumes that we are rational actors who weigh the costs and benefits of our actions. Costs are the negative consequences of our actions, such as time, effort, money, or risk. Benefits are the positive outcome...

Broadcasting is a skill that can open many doors for you in the media industry and beyond. Whether you want to work as a radio or TV presenter, a podcast host, a YouTube star, or a social media influencer, you need to know how to communicate effectively and confidently to a large audience. But how can you learn broadcasting skills without spending a fortune on formal education or training? The answer is simple: online courses. Online courses are a convenient and affordable way to learn new skills or improve your existing ones. You can access high-quality content and resources from reputable instructors and institutions, at your own pace, schedule, and location. You can also choose the topics and formats that suit your interests and goals. One of the trending online courses for broadcasting skills is Shuks Broadcast Mastery, a 2-month online course hosted by Shukurat Temitope Ibrahim, also known as Shuks Queen Of Talk. Shuks is a veteran broadcaster, media trainer, and entre...

The Chairman of the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS) Joint Campus Committee (JCC) Kwara State axis, Comrade Yusuf Abdulgafar, has been accused of harassing and intimidating students with military men at the first senate sitting he chaired on Saturday, January 13, 2024. According to some student leaders who attended the sitting, Abdulgafar left the venue without consulting the senators who were present to represent the interests of their students. He also allegedly ignored the observations raised by the Student Union President of Kwara State University, who questioned why the chairman was asking about the status of each institution after a year in office. Another observation was why the chairman brought armed forces to the pre-convention, which was supposed to be a peaceful and democratic gathering of student representatives from various institutions in Kwara State. The student leaders claimed that the chairman stormed out of the sitting after imposing his will on the se...

My dear Modupeoluwa, you are a rare and splendid gem,  You are the kind of friend that life can't take away, You always seek for peace, even when there's mayhem, But what can I do, except to love you every day? Your sense of humor is a balm for my weary soul, Whenever I feel low, you are just a call away, You always make me laugh, even when I'm in a hole, You bring back the smile to my not-so-pretty face.  Thanks to you, I won bet whenever I rang you up, I know you will tease me, your voice will say "Olamilekan, you don mad o 😂". I don't mind the teasing, all I know is "Aunty Modupeoluwa will bless me with money soon 😌". I wish you more amazing success in all you do, May you fly high like an eagle, above the stormy clouds, May God give you good health as you add another year, May His mercy be with you today and always. From your darling boyfriend 😎,    Promise Olamilekan Odejide

  By Promise Odejide Adebola Williams is a Nigerian media entrepreneur, journalist, political consultant and speaker. He is the co-founder and CEO of RED, a media group that owns several platforms such as The Future Awards Africa, YNaija, and RED Media Africa. He is also the founder of StateCraft Inc, a political communication firm that has helped three African presidents win their elections. But how did Williams achieve such success in the media industry? Well, the answer may surprise you: he did not attend any formal journalism school or university. Instead, he learned everything he needed to know from online courses. Williams started his media career as a teenage actor on a popular Nigerian soap opera. He soon developed an interest in journalism and activism, and joined the team of Enough is Enough Nigeria, a youth-led movement that advocates for good governance and accountability. He also became a radio host and a TV producer. However, he realized that he needed mor...

By Promise Odejide If you're a Nigerian, you've probably heard of the phrase "No gree for anybody". It's a phrase that has become popular in the cruise cosmos, and also among many Nigerians who face various challenges and hardships in their daily lives. But what does it mean, and how can it help you achieve your goals? "No gree for anybody" is a phrase in Pidgin English that means not agreeing or not giving in. It's a way of saying that you're not backing down or letting anyone push you around, no matter what's going on. It's a phrase that expresses determination, resilience, and courage. This phrase can be traced back to Nigerian Pidgin English — a vibrant and widely spoken language in Nigeria. In Pidgin English, “Nor gree” translates to “it won’t happen” or “it won’t work out.”  They use it to declare their uniqueness and superiority, and to challenge their rivals and critics. They also use it to inspire one another and to e...

By Promise Odejide A Tribe Called Judah is a 2023 Nollywood movie that surprised me with its quality and originality. It has been a while since I spent my time watching Nollywood movies, due to their lack of creativity and inconsistency. So, when I read a teaser from a particular post about A Tribe Called Judah, I decided to starve myself to see the movie. Lo and behold, it was a masterpiece of drama with comedy, blending elements of suspense, action, and family values. The movie tells the story of a single mother, Jedidah Judah, and her five sons from different fathers, who embark on a daring heist to raise money for her kidney transplant. The movie features a star-studded cast, including Nse Ikpe Etim, Uzor Aruhumour, Timini Egbuson, Jide Kene Achufusi, and Boma Akpore, among others. The movie is produced by Funke Akindele and co-directed by Adeoluwa Owu and Funke Akindele. The movie has several strengths that make it a captivating and enjoyable watch. First, the movie sh...